Wedding planning is a lot of work. Having been on both sides of wedding planning as a bride and wedding photographer, I know how stressful it can be. It can become so intense that I’ve often seen a very important part of wedding day preparation become overlooked. The morning of your wedding is such a crucial time for setting the relaxed and calm (but still excited!) vibe that every couple wants their day to have. Here’s how you can make the most of getting ready on your wedding morning that sets you up for the very best wedding day!
The space itself where you’re getting ready on your wedding morning is going to affect your photos the most, particularly the kind of light that’s available. The more windows and natural light the better, even for the guys! Don’t stick the groomsmen in a basement or in the smallest room. In Washington, DC, my favorite getting ready space is the Line DC Hotel. The windows are amazing, there’s plenty of room to spread out, and the decor is bright, neutral, and modern. No crazy carpet patterns!
There are a few ways to make the most of your wedding morning getting ready:
Here are my top recommended activities for grooms during the wedding morning time that they spend getting ready:
An alternative idea is some couples choose to get ready together, especially when there isn’t a wedding party such as during an adventurous elopement or even a smaller, intimate wedding. It’s basically an extended first look and these can be such special moments!
To round this out, here are some common mistakes I want to warn you not to do during your time getting ready on your wedding morning!
Not Giving Yourself Enough Time: this time period sets the timeline for the rest of the day. I can’t emphasize this enough: we are either on track or very behind because of the getting ready time. Really think about how long it takes you to get into your dress: do you have a zipper and you’re done OR do you have 100 buttons? Do you need to use some fashion tape? You should always allow time for hair and makeup to be done and then buffer that just in case.
I had a wedding run almost one hour behind because it took the bride 30 minutes to get into her dress (taping involved). She then had to have her hair finished even after that. We just had to cut out some of the photos to keep the rest of the day on track. Even though we were good (I can be super fast if needed!) the bride was so stressed because she was running late.
Not Having Enough Space: your wedding party might be four people, but you are probably going to also have both moms, multiple hair and makeup artists, your photographer, and possibly a videographer. I would suggest getting a bigger space than you think you need.
Not Cleaning Your Space Before Coverage Starts: it makes the biggest difference in your photos if the space is clean. This can literally mean shoving everything into an extra room.
Using the Plastic Hanger that comes with your dress rather than a nicer or personalized wooden hanger. Plastic hangers will not do your dress justice! You can get them personalized with your name or “bride,” but the simplicity of a wooden hanger also looks beautiful by itself.
Forgetting to Take Your Dress Out of the Bag the Night Before and doing all the steaming the day before, even the bridesmaids dresses.
I suggest that you either buy or create a wedding day emergency kit that includes the following items: